From your point of view

06.02.2020.

You know that situation when you totally know you’re right but for some reason or the other your opinions come going in favour of another person. Because you know how you feel and how would someone else feel. Maybe it’s just your point of view and maybe taking into account the overall situation.

When do you know that you’re right? When you have to stand on the ball and say- “that’s it”?

If the seller has the best dress for you or you accepted the meal you didn’t really want due to the suggestions of your friend- are you comfortable after? If you’re sorry that your relationship is not going when you’re considering that it’s not him, it’s you- where do you go next? Similar could be about the taste of food but we cannot discuss about the taste, only about the real tastes.

Your friend has come to your place after long time but didn’t visit. For the banal reason like the price of the ticket that you cannot understand as you were always guided by the thought that’s more valuable to visit a friend than just rushing to see places.

Accepting what is expensive to someone can collide with your presumptions. The best way to accept something is just putting your personal values in the same circle with the common habits, to let your story get the new frame. How do you know that you’re right?

This big world is so different, yet so small. We may meet an old friend on the most unusual place or the people that we met once on the totally different place another time. Our likes and dislikes can be so similar that we may wonder where is the best of our choices and why do we come back to some places. We may feel like home on some remoted island or we may loose our attention to what’s really like being bored.

About being bored there are so many issues, so many points of view. As one person can never feel bored but never, still standing in the row for “unlimited amount of time” can be felt so bored. Being in peace with yourself is just so valuable as taking into account someone else’s preferences and wishes. Sometimes understanding is the main point. We would never come into quarrel if we would take it slow, not rushing things. Understanding is the key of being more focused and more secure in your choices. Even if we don’t understand the key is to understand. Understanding other people’s views can be a great tool to the personal development, the perfect hit into the basket.

Sometimes we make it on our own no matter what. There’s no mine or your point of view, there’s just one strong desire that knows no dangers or maybe it knows but only wants to get “there”. What is actually my point of view or do I just have the different aspects of fear? Even if we are madly in love, isn’t the love one that comes naturally? Without the pressures of what we should be sometimes we completely don’t understand the other person.

What are the limits of getting with your point of view? Forgetting our expectations or just looking the sunset from another perspective can bring new colours to mine or yours. Just enjoy the view and climb that damn mountain.